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EFT: Emotionally Focused Therapy
Searching for Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples or trying to understand the letters EFT? Start here for conversations about attachment, connection, and recurring relationship cycles. In this guide, EFT means Emotionally Focused Therapy; Emotional Freedom Techniques, often called tapping, is a different approach that shares the initials.
Conversations hosted by Diana S. Rice, LMHC, CIMHP, QS.
A little context before you listen
What is Emotionally Focused Therapy?
Emotionally Focused Therapy is an approach grounded in attachment theory that explores emotions and patterns of connection. It has forms for individuals, couples, and families. Episode 107 focuses on how clinicians understand relationship cycles and emotional needs.
Learn more: ICEEFT: Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Is this the same as EFT tapping?
No. The shared initials refer to two different approaches. This guide collects Emotionally Focused Therapy conversations. Episode 51 in the archive discusses Emotional Freedom Techniques and tapping.
Where would you like to begin?
Episode 107
Start here: attachment and the cycles couples repeat
Dr. Marni Feuerman explains Emotionally Focused Therapy, the distinction from tapping, and how therapists explore relationship cycles. Diana and Marni discuss emotional connection and what an attachment-focused conversation can look like.
Original episode: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Attachment, Cycles, and How Couples Heal with Dr. Marni Feuerman
Episode 40
Attachment, trauma, and cultural context
Goumah Conde, LMFT, shares her experience as a war survivor and discusses secure attachment, cultural context, and several therapeutic approaches, including EFT. This is a broader attachment conversation to hear after the dedicated introduction.
Original episode: Healing Trauma and Building Secure Relationships: Insights from War Survivor and Therapist, Goumah Conde, LMFT
Questions to take with you
- What relationship cycle am I trying to understand?
- What training does a provider have in the specific approach they offer?
These prompts are invitations to reflect, not a screening tool or a diagnosis.
Keep exploring the archive
The following episodes also mention Emotionally Focused Therapy in their titles, show notes, or available transcripts. Some mentions are brief. They are additional places to explore after the featured interviews.
Browse 5 more episodes mentioning this topic
- Episode 126 · Christian Therapy & Trauma Healing: Spiritual Abuse, Shame, and Identity in Christ with Vanessa Bentley, LPC-MHSPRead transcript
- Episode 121 · How to Heal Betrayal Trauma, Porn Addiction, and Rebuild Trust in Relationships with Brannon Patrick, LCSW & Tyler Patrick, LMFTRead transcript
- Episode 118 · "No Bad Parts"? IFS, CPTSD, Faith & Deep Healing with Lynn Kearney, LMFTRead transcript
- Episode 116 · Why "Strong" People Struggle in Silence: Men's Mental Health, High-Functioning Anxiety, Intimacy & Healing w/ Todd Malloy, LMFT, CSTRead transcript
- Episode 28 · Advocating for Mental Health in Black and Brown Communities with Terrini Woods, LMHCRead transcript